Wordpress Embedding video tube site tutorial

Hi I have an Adult video wordpress website and would like to know how to embed videos from sites that DO NOT share embed codes. I would like to have a video player(through suggestion) that will work fast and without issue(responsive) and be shown how to do the embeds. Right now I know how to copy/paste embed codes but this limits which videos i can post to my site and this includes the websites ads, branding and redirects, etc... I am using Bestia theme from mytubepress.com. requirements: I would like to have a tutorial on how to post videos to the site, explain the process(method of posting) I would like to have a video player recommended and installed for use. Ways to remove the sites ads, popups, redirects, branding or whatever is possible. I have a list of sites that i'd like to embed from(that don't share embed code) and would like to know if i can embed these videos. My site isn't live yet, so I'd like you point the site live and change the location of the domain folder(i set it up in the wp instead of my website [login to view URL] I don't need any custom coding done, but a short explanation on how to use the drag and drop theme to make changes to the homepage and video landing page(2 pages) - i have been emailing the company for help but this is moving so slow that i would rather have someone who is good with wordpress just show me how I'd like to have this through teamviewer or an actual tutorial reference or video made. we can discuss this. this is just a one-time meet up and explain. I'm looking for someone who maybe has their own site or has worked on tube sites and is familiar with embedding videos. A wordpress person that knows about drag and drop themes and can confidently show me how to make changes to the 2 pages in the theme. English language is required. thank you, Sean