custom/unique flash video player (vimeo-like) MSSQL integrated needed

large digital media distributor (500,000+ unique visitors monthly) needs a custom flash video player created that will work with our ms sql 2005 database of uploaded files. you can basically think of youtube's player as a basis, but vimeo's player as a graphical basis (like their visual style much more) basic needs - plays flv/mp4 - capability of Q'ing up multiple videos for successive playback - reads a querystring in URL box to pull appropriate information from database, to display file - shows 'other videos' from DB after playback is completed - embeddable on other sites (also shows other videos on those sites, also shows a searchbox at end of those videos, like youtube, to search through our DB) - full screen - our logo presented at bottom left or right, including on other sites that embed us (logo click should bring to our frontpage) - youtube like speech bubble capability is a big plus, but not mandatory - i want people to be able to put #4:16 in the querystring to go straight to that part in the video, like youtube does our site (which will be revealed privately to interested parties) expects to see 1 million monthly visitors by late 2009, we're growing steadily and your video player would be seen by a lot of people as time goes on, if that serves as any sort of e-bragging or ego boost for you. we're happy to keep useful contractors as friends as well for future projects. applicants should only be people/companies speaking english as their native language, and based in an english speaking country please. please provide evidence/portfolio of similar work you've done to prove that you're capable of it. more details can be hashed out in messages between us.