Bulk Email Server Setup and Software

We want to have in-house Server to send to our list. Sever can be virtual but we need help setting it up. We send a little over a million per month to same list. Want to increase inbox delivery and manage internally. Willing to teach us how to set up the following: How to setup Reverse DNS lookup for the 400 ip's How to setup FBL (Feedback Loop) How to setup DKIM (DomainKeys Identified Mail) How to setup SPF (Sender Policy Framework). How to avoid Blacklists and if you get listed how to be removed Fast How to get Whitelisted How to get emails in inbox What software to use etc..